Why is it that getting started is always the hardest part? Once a task has begun it’s never as hard as you imagined it would be. Small steps in the right direction build to make you feel more and more accomplished. That in turn makes you want to work harder to complete the task and keep up the feelings of success. I’m so glad I’ve started the process of really looking for a wedding venue. It’s so exciting to see this wedding taking shape! It’s going to be the perfect classy affair I’ve always dreamed of!

I often find it hard to know what to say in a blog. I feel that my life is not interesting enough for others to read. I live a busy and yet not busy life. I work two jobs in separate cities and thus spend my weeks in two locations. This in itself lends me to feel overstretched at times. I spend the weekends going to bed early and the weeknights partying like it’s a weekend.

It’s hard to be on a different schedule than the rest of the world. People have a hard time understanding that I do not want to drive to Kent after work on a Saturday night to hangout, when I was just there the night before. It is inconvenient for me to do so. The same can be said of my friends from home. They want to see me on days that I spend in Stow and it drives me nuts! 

I am constantly saying no to people that I would love to hangout with because I have to work or the location is off. Of course I’m willing to make exceptions occasionally but I get distressed when I’m asked to make them all the time. It’s also hurtful when I’ve said no so many times that I stop getting invited. I just feel that very few people are willing to work around me.

Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to work a 9a-5p job and have weekends off. It would be such a different kind of life. I’d be so much more accessible to people! This is definitely a future goal!  

It’s kinda sad when plans fall through… bummer. Good thing I have a busy tomorrow to look forward to. :)

This is my newest obsession!

I love motorcycle rides. The wind whips through your hair and you can feel the sun shining down on you. You lean into turns and pop wheelies. What’s not to like?

It’s time to wonder…

How is it possible that I exist in such a large universe?

What is success?

Is life from here on out only going to get better?

Some people are ridiculous in their inability to use their manners. So I’ve come up with a few guidelines for how I wish people treated each other.

1. Treat others as you’d like to be treated. If you don’t want to be ditched then don’t ditch others.

2. Honesty is the best policy. Don’t be overly frank but don’t lie. If you don’t want to hangout then just say so. I’d rather know now and be able to make other plans then wait around and do nothing.

3. Punctuality is a must. If you are going to be late or plans change just call. Don’t wait til the last minute if it can be helped.

4. Use tact. If you are put in an uncomfortable situation make the best of it. We will all appreciate it greatly.

5. Thank people when they do something nice for you. They don’t have to and it will make them more inclined to repeat their kindness in the future.

6. Be kind to the help. It shows your true character. Use your pleases and thank yous.

7. If you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all.

I think that will do it for now. Feel free to add to the list…